A while ago on a very routine morning, I listened to one of my favourite podcasts, Asking For a Friend by clinical sexologist Catriona Boffard. In the particular episode I listened to ‘What You Should Really Know About Sexual Desire’ she was joined by Dr. Christopher Fox, a psychosexual therapist, and they were having a …
Greetings all! It’s been over a year since I last wrote so I thought it fitting to take things back to the beginning – the fundamentals, if you will – by expanding more on the topics of consent, autonomy, recognizing abusive behaviours in intimate relationships, you name it. Today’s topic is reproductive & sexual coercion/abuse. The …
Welcome back, everyone! We’re discussing an enraging and terrifying topic this week – female genital mutilation/cutting/circumcision (FGM/C). FGM/C is the partial or total removal of the female external genitalia or other injuries to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), FGM/C is a common cultural practice in some …
Vulvas in a man’s world: Bleed for marriageability Read More »
Compliments of the New Year everyone! Welcome back! I am finally delivering this long-awaited and highly anticipated post on squirting!!! Before we begin, I’d like to thank everyone who submitted their responses, thank you for trusting me with them. And most of all, thank you for your patience and returning to this platform, you’re all …
Squirters, dribblers, gushers – is it erotic “pee”? Read More »
A couple of years ago I took a lot of nudes. Lots! And I would get turned on by them. I always shared this little detail with my friends and their reactions had me think they were disturbed and thought there was something wrong with me, but I recently learnt that they were amused by …
“Whatever it is that is a dream for you, you will be able to pursue your dreams if you’re married to me. And whether that you want to be able to bike across the country, or you need to have a relationship with someone else, as long as it doesn’t endanger the marriage, as long …
Hello, everyone and welcome back to this world of inconsistency. I just went through the most testing week of my life – exam week! Do you know what got me through the sleepless nights? My vibrator, latex gloves, lots of lube, Kegel, and breathing exercises. No kidding! So, I am one of the people who …
My goodness, it’s been a while! Happy New Year everyone! Thank you for starting the year right – with me. Today I chose to revisit the topic of STI(D)s because I would like us to start the new year with positive mindsets and safe sex practices. This post will also serve as a reminder that …
It’s a dark chilly night and I’m home drinking with family and friends. There’s a car parked across the deserted street, I don’t know who it belongs to but later I’ll be gagged and strapped on its hood by a heterosexual woman who will be having her way with me under the moonlight (I’ll spare …
Hello, everyone! So it’s been a month since you heard from me, life got in the way but I’m back now. Thank you for tuning right back in. Let’s start an important, complex, and necessary conversation about informed consent. Someone on Twitter wrote that there is no such thing as consensual sex because that would …